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Saturday, September 20, 2014

Do you ever run out of love?

Have you ever had a relationship go down the drain and you think "I'll never love again!!"  You give into the broken heart and despair and swear off future relationships, or you decide your life will just be a series of one night stands so that you won't feel any emotional attachment.  Is it really possible to run out of love??

No.  Hearts are resilient.  Love will come again, if it didn't there would be no second (or 3rd, or 4th) marriages.  There would be no loves past your first love at 15, when you were sure that you'd met the other teenager you were going to spend your life with!  There would be no hope of love after being widowed.  Yet, somehow all those things can and do happen on a daily basis, all over the world.  Yes, you might love your partner with all your heart, and then they break your heart...but it will heal.  You will love again. 

Knowing the right time to open your heart back up to love is key.  You don't want to do it while you are still grieving a lost relationship.  Because, it won't be love you are looking for, but a bandage for your pain.  It won't be fair to you, or the person you are using to get over your past  hurt.  Open your heart back up, when the hurt is just a memory.  Open your heart back up, when you meet someone that makes you laugh, and that you can talk with for hours.  Open your heart back up when it feels right.  Yes, it may get broken again, or it may not.  Life isn't about playing it safe, it's not about trying to never feel hurt....if get through life without ever being hurt, then you didn't live, you hid yourself away from all the wonders of love, and joy. 

I know when you are drowning your sorrows in pint of chocolate ice cream, and you haven't showered in two days....the thought of NEW love is the last thing on your mind.  All you can think about is your OLD love.  However, I have found that people move in and out of our lives for a reason.  If you look back at your past relationships, what did you learn?  Don't say "nothing", because we learn something about ourselves with every relationship.  What we like, what we don't like, what we will tolerate, what annoys us, what we love, what we find charming....there is always something to learn.

So, pick yourself up....give yourself time to be heartbroken, and then put the past in the past and move forward.  Just remember, don't make future relationships carry the burden of past hurts.  That person is in your past, this is a whole new person, new relationship, new dynamic...so let it develop without dragging past baggage into it.  "I am distrustful, because I was cheated on in the past." is an example of letting the past dictate your future.  Yes, you might have learned not to blindly trust everything your partner tells you, but your new partner hasn't lied to you, so give them the benefit of the doubt.  "I got my heart broke in the past, and I am not looking for a serious relationship."  If you aren't open to the prospect of a serious relationship, then you aren't over the past and you shouldn't be putting yourself out there as looking for ANY kind of relationship.  No one is pushing, so take the time you need.  Don't however, jump in too soon but stay emotionally closed off, because what you might miss is the potential for TRUE love.

Relationships aren't easy.  Love isn't easy.  Life isn't easy.  However, the journey, the people that come into your life, the love that you get to feel, those are blessing, even if they don't turn out like we want them too.  So, know that you have a never ending capacity for love, and that heartbreak doesn't last forever.  Believe in yourself, and what you have to offer in a relationship.  Expect to be treated with respect, kindness, and love and that is what you will get. 

thanks to www.pinktoybox.tumblr.com for the pics

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Men that like it rough!

So, we know that there are girls that like it rough, but what about guys?  We've been told that men need their cock and balls treated gently, but I am starting to think we've been lied too!  No, they don't want to be drop kicked in the nuts, however, that doesn't mean that they wouldn't like it a bit rougher in the bedroom!

Most men can withstand more pain and more stimulation than what women typically give them.  We might jerk on your cock or squeeze your balls, but out of fear of hurting you...we always hold back.  So, how do you get the speed and intensity that you like?  Take her hand, show her!!!  Don't be afraid to say "HARDER!" , don't be afraid to tell her to use her teeth and chew on your shaft a bit, or to squeeze your balls hard.  Don't be scared to tell her to jerk on your cock like she's trying to tear it off.  Yeah, she might be a bit surprised at first, but most of us want to please our partner and we are open to new ways of doing that.

Ladies, have you ever watched your man masturbate?  I bet, if you have, that you were surprised at the ferocity that he goes about jerking on his cock.  Watch and learn.  The next time it's your turn to stroke his cock, try to mimic what you saw....his moans will let you know if you are on the right path.  If you are being too rough, I'm pretty sure he'll speak up.

Tonight, instead of taking it slow and easy, spice things up and get rough and wild with him.  You might just find a side of him that you didn't realize existed, and he just might cum harder for you than he ever thought possible, that is a win/win in my book!


Emma Stoned & Bruce Venture | Office Play (Tiny4k)
Phenomenal gifs from this scene!

UuuMmmm #Emma

Sunday, August 31, 2014

Sex that defies gravity!

Sometimes you see people having sex in ways that literally defy gravity...there have been times that I literally wonder, HOW do they do that?!

Now, we all know that in some of the more adventurous positions, a guy needs his upper body strength!!  In a few of them, you can consider it your cardio for the day! 

The thing is, you don't have to be a yogi or a gymnast to have great sex.  You don't have to weigh 90 pounds or be able to do handstands.  Yeah, new positions are fun and it's awesome to try something out of the box every once in a while....but, sex isn't about how many positions from the kama sutra you can do, it's about connecting with your partner. 

So, sure have fun, try new things, and if you can do some of these positions then good for you!!  However, if you'll never be able to bend your body into a pretzel then don't worry, you can still have hot sex AND keep from having to see your chiropractor afterwards ;)

Just remember that there are a lot of factors that go into having great sex and it's not just all about positions, it's about communication, eye contact, kissing, whispering, moaning, sweating, cumming and everything else that goes into making love. 

However,  if you want to shake up your cardio routine or you want to see just how flexible that yoga class is making you then try some of these, and let me know how much fun you had defying gravity! ;)
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That looks like a hard position…
Thank you to www.pinktoybox.tumblr.com for the awesome gifs!

Friday, August 8, 2014

Cum INSIDE!

So, what is an impregnation fetish?  Is it just for men or just for women?  This is one that can go both ways..the fetish can be his...the thought of giving her his seed, or hers..the thought of accepting his seed.

So, what is it about a bare cock, and an unprotected pussy that gets people so turned on?  Is it the risk?  Is it the domination/submission aspect?  Is it something else?  Honestly, I think it's a little bit of all 3.  I think there is something taboo about fucking without a condom in our society.  We've been inundated with information that condom use is vital in decreasing the transmission of HIV/STDs and this is TRUE.  However, for some...the emotional pull of spreading or accepting seed is so strong that the risk gets pushed to the side.

There are different types of impregnation fantasies.  There is the forcible impregnation, where she wants him to use a condom or to pull out and that doesn't happen, and she is impregnated against her will. (This can happen to the guy too, when she's riding and won't stop and ends up taking his seed from him.) This one often plays into "rape" fantasies. 

There is the coercion impregnation where it  happens without a partner's knowledge...she doesn't realize the condom broke, but he does and keeps on fucking her is one example.  Or she might scoop his cum up from her stomach and push it into her pussy when he's not watching. 

There is the mutual desire impregnation fantasy where they both want it, each eager for the resulting pregnancy.  This is one fantasy that may actually turn into reality if the couple decides they both want the same result, for her to have a pregnant belly.

So, this is one of those fantasies that can take a lot of different avenues. Now, I will say that the first two versions are best left to role playing or in fantasy, because an unwanted pregnancy isn't a good thing for either partner.  However, it can be a very bonding moment when both partners agree that they want to get pregnant...suddenly, sex takes on a very different meaning, and it can be a very intense time.

If you have a partner that is willing to role play and enjoy your impregnation fantasy, then go ahead and indulge in all the cream pies she can take! 
Just remember before you take off that condom....safety (health) first, and don't make decisions in the heat of the moment, because sometimes all it takes is one last thrust to turn a fantasy into a reality and then you'll have a big problem when the afterglow wears off!

Thanks to www.aloaddeepinsideher.tumblr.com for the awesome gifs/pics!
 impregnationfreak:

"Come on baby, do it…shoot your hot load in me…I can tell you want to…you’re so hard right now…ready to burst…you know I’m not taking anything, you could knock me up sooo easy right now…come on, do it…let’s risk it…cum in me…shove it in deep and shoot every drop all the way inside…"

Every girl I am with should say this.

possessive-daddy:

Seeding you.

this is perfect.
love seeing the cum, but he needs to be balls deep when he pumps his seed into her. best feeling in the world feeling her pussy contract around your cum-blasting cock.
cumrisk:

I’d awakened that morning to the sounds of soft whimpers and sticky fingers slathered and smeared. Looking over my shoulder, I noticed the beauty I had picked up the previous night was pleasuring herself while attempting to hush her heated moans and delight.
I turned on my back and looked at her; when she caught my gaze, she didn’t stop. There was a penetrating moment between the both of us and as she persisted fingering those pedals, looking at me with those shuddering brows and wedged gasps, my cock grew instantly thick and long.
Then her eyes dropped. They caught what she had wanted - a long, unyielding fuck rod which her body ached for. She stopped her own self pleasures to grab my shaft and slowly began to stroke it. 
It was my turn to make the faces, my turn to hold back the gasping sighs. 
It didn’t take long for me to crave her body, to be inside her and take what I wanted. I shifted around and got to my knees behind her open legs. She grabbed my cock and placed the tip between her pink lips, attempting to push it in.
"Wait," I stopped her. She looked at me.
"I have to get a condom."
She didn’t answer me. She just looked at me with pleading eyes and a griping pout, as if to say fuck me. She continued pushing in my cock until I easily slipped inside. The gasp caught her throat, her eyes rolled back.
I lowered and pressed against her body, ravaging her snug snatch at a steady pace; I was enjoying the moment she allowed me to share in with no barriers to get in the way; it was full natural sex the way it was meant to be. I was going to enjoy it for as long as my body allowed me to.
“Don’t pull out,” she whispered. “Cum inside me!”
Hearing those words prompted something in me I didn’t know existed. Within moments, I was an animal. She was so smooth and warm; that unembellished feeling took over me completely.
My thrusts harder, my pumps deeper, and as the power-driven sense of paradise struck me over, that groan that escaped me, I was drizzling my balls deep inside her unprotected cunt. Rope after thick rope, my cock drained into this woman, dominating and making her a product of my seed to inseminate. I didn’t know this girl, and a part of me didn’t care. It was the most enjoyable moment I’ve had in a long time.
My actions will definitely have its consequence, and I look forward to seeing the result of my careless desires.
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cumrisk.tumblr.com
seedfetish:

aloaddeepinsideher:

my balls are so heavy and filled with cum that I know I would fill up any girl that got to receive my seed. i need a release.

come over

when and where ;)
makinghimadaddy:

Impregnation Caption Blogs
I got a question about whether I know any other blogs like mine. Uhhh, yes. Some really really good ones. So I thought I’d put a list together of the biggest and best (that I know of).
aloaddeepinsideheralphaincubusbabygirls-loving-daddybreederseederbreedingalphabreedmegentlycanifillyourholescapjaxsterfillherupandknockherupgettingyoupregnantjustknockyouupimpregnationdreamsimpregnationfreakincestuous-creampiemoreriskmrbluehatpaternalstrangerpregnant-incestriskingimpregnationslightlypregobsessedteenbreedingtinatticklestxnymphounprotectedisbestwannabepreggowomb-feeder
(If you’re not on this list and want to be, message me and I’ll take a look.) I may also update this with pregnancy nudes blogs.

really proud to be on this list. I also mass followed everyone else on this list and they are amazing. they give me more ideas when I want to breed ;) 

Saturday, July 26, 2014

Sometimes sex just sucks!

So, is there such a thing as bad sex?  I have heard the saying that any sex is good sex, but I don't believe it.  Sometimes, sex just sucks.

I have had great sex, okay sex, and down right awful sex....what was the difference, what made me perceive one as great and the other as awful?  Well, I'll tell you!

What I consider great sex wasn't based on penis size, or how many moves he had.  Great sex from me, was when I was in love and felt a connection to my partner.  Great sex came with the comfort to share fantasies, to laugh at ourselves and sometimes each other when there were those inevitable "blunders".   Great sex was knowing my boundaries were respected.  Great sex came with great communication.

Okay sex, is with someone you care about.  Maybe, you don't feel comfortable sharing your desires and fantasies, but you can move a hand here, or guide a rhythm there.  It's okay, but without good communication, respect and trust...it's never going to be great. 

Awful sex is when you feel like you are being treated as nothing more than a cum dump.  I consider some of my worst sexual experiences to be when there was no emotional connection (one night stands, I'm talking about YOU!)  I would also say my worst sexual experiences were when I didn't feel respected.  There is nothing worse than saying to a partner "No, I'm really not into that" only to have them try to make you feel guilty, or worse bully you into a situation you aren't comfortable with. 

Awful sex is when you don't feel like you can communicate what you want and need your partner.  Awful sex is when you are being used as a stand in for someone else (girls don't fuck your guy buddy, just because your boyfriend dumped you, guys can feel used too!) Awful sex is when you are treated like a pussy or cock without the rest of the person attached. 

Honestly, I'd rather be celibate than have awful sex.  I'd rather wake up alone than wake up with regret.  Just remember that how a person treats you before they get you into bed will be how they treat you IN bed...so if you don't feel comfortable, if you don't feel valued and respected then you have ever right to say "Thanks, but no thanks!" and guys...this goes for you too!!  Just because you have a cock doesn't mean you have to stick it into any willing female.

So, the next time you go to have sex...ask yourself if you'll regret it in the morning. If you think the answer is yes, then wait.  Either let the relationship develop or move on, but don't have bad sex when you can be having GREAT sex with the right partner.

Thanks for www.pinktoybox.tumblr.com for the pics!

My decision.

I have had so much positive feedback since I became disenchanted with writing my blog that I have decided to do 2 things.

1.  I will not delete the blog, I will leave it up. :)
2.  I will continue to post to it, but only when I feel truly inspired to write something and not out of feeling like it's "expected" of me.

The blog had become a burden, and because of that...it had stopped being fun for me.  I think I needed some perspective and to actually hear what my readers thought about my blog. I appreciated all the feedback, and the donations that came in from people that enjoy and support my blog.  It was your actions and comments that truly changed my mind.

I would like to remind you that because this is an adult content blog I can't monetize with sponsors or advertisers, so donations are always welcome...and they make me smile :) Your comments continue to make my day as well. 

Hopefully, I can continue to help people have better sex and better relationships for a long time.  Thank you again for everything. HUGS!! YC

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Decisions.

I've been writing this blog now for several years and I am almost at a MILLION views.  However, I am considering shutting it all down. Here's why....

1.  It takes up a lot of my time.  Coming up with a topic, writing the blog, finding the pictures...it takes time.  Sometimes, I do research, sometimes I talk to friends about topics to get their input.  The point is, each blog post requires more of my time than a lot of people realize.

2.  I make NO money on my blog.  I can't monetize an adult blog...so guess what, it makes me absolutely no money.  I put up a donation button, but I can literally count on one hand the people that have donated.  Btw, to the people that donated, you know who you are, I am grateful and if the blog stays or goes, you can always message me! :)

So, I'm deciding what to do with the blog....I want to make a decision that I won't regret. I'm just really frustrated by what appears to be a lack of appreciation.  I have tried to help people have better sex lives, and I hope you've enjoyed reading it, but maybe it's time for me to move on and put my time and energy into other avenues.

Sincerely,
YC