Just bounce!

When you ride your guy so you rock...or bounce?  Whichever you usually do...do the other!  It's good to mix things up and don't always stay with the "tried and true"...keep each other guessing will keep your sex life HOT!  It's easy to fall into a rut, but to keep that from happening or to break out of one...you have to step out of your comfort zone and look at your lover's body with new eyes.  Imagine it's the first time you've made love to them, relearn their body...you might find that spots that weren't sensitive to touch before are now, or that your lover likes a stronger touch than before.  We are constantly changing beings...and that includes sexually!  Our fantasies change, our bodies change, what feels good to us changes, so tonight treat your lover like it's the first time and you might find that with a little bouncing, comes a lot of cumming! ;)




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Pull it out!

Is sliding your cock INTO a wet pussy hot?  Hell yeah!! However, sliding it out can be just as sexy! 

When you are slowly pumping a pussy, you get to see her lips move with your strokes..pushing inwards as you do, and pulling back as you slide out.  That subtle in and out movement of her pussy in time with your thrusts can be visually exciting!

Also, that moment when you finally pull free from her body after you both cum, and the head of your cock leaves her slit...you get a great visual of the product of your lovemaking...your cummy mix running out of her freshly fucked pussy!  A lot of men don't take the time to enjoy this last moment, but honestly...it's probably one of the sexiest!  Her lips are pink and puffy from the pounding you've just given her pussy...her  hole is still slightly open and your cum is overflowing! 

So, don't be so quick to just roll off her and flop onto the bed to recuperate.  Take a moment to watch your cock actually pull out...who knows, it just might get you fired up for round 2! 


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Facial?

When it comes to facials..this has been popularized by porn over the years.  The sight of a willing woman with cum all over her face may be hot to guys, but to a lot of women...it's not something they are eager to experience.  Now, there are exceptions to every rule, and some women love a good cum facial.  The thing you have to do is find out if YOUR woman likes it, or wants to try it.

So, how do you do that?  Simple... ask her.  If she says she'll try it, then do a few minutes of prep beforehand...like putting a towel beside the bed, so she can wipe off her face.  If she has contacts, she might want to take them out beforehand...and try not to cum in her eye, it stings and nothing kills a mood faster than a red, teary bloodshot eye!  Also, remember that if she's not into it, the world won't end because you don't get to cum on her face...respect her decision. 

Now, for the woman that enjoys this, there are a lot of elements that go into it.  She may enjoy the feeling of domination by her partner cumming on her face, or she may enjoy the actual tactile feel of warm cum splashing onto her skin.  The thought of being in a submissive position with her partner's cum on her face may make her feel sexy, or that she has fulfilled her partner's fantasy in a way that is bonding between them.

I will say this, if you have a woman that doesn't want you to cum on her face then how about a compromise? You could cum on her tits, or her belly.  She might not want a facial, but might be willing to agree to this.

I can't say it enough..communication is key here.  Talk about it beforehand and talk about it after.  She might agree to it and then find that after it happens she loves it..or hates it.  Don't assume you know which it is.  Also, if this is your partner's fantasy you could give it a chance and then make up your mind.  You might find that it's a new, exciting element to your sex life.....or, it might gross you out.  Often, things might seem worse... or hotter than the actual reality.  The only way of knowing is to try it once and see how it goes.

So, the next time someone asks how you keep your skin looking so great...just reply "You enjoy a great facial!" with a glint of mischief in your eye! :)
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The Senses

Sex is definitely about using your 5 senses, touch, taste, seeing, smelling, hearing.  You touch your lover's skin, taste their kisses and their cum, see their pleasure, smell the scent of sex and hear their moans...it's literally a feast for your senses!

I think we often get into a routine of doing what "works" and we forget that there is a whole lot more sensitive, erotic parts of the body besides just the cock/tits/pussy.  We may be shy about moaning or talking during sex, even though it's a great way of encouraging your partner to continue making you feel good!  We might not want to be caught staring..but the sight of his cock pumping into her pussy is HOT for both of you, don't be shy about looking, because your partner is sneaking peeks too!!  Taste their kisses, their cum...don't just gulp/spit..take some time and actually taste it, you might enjoy it!  And, guys...don't ever underestimate the perfume of a hot horny pussy, it's a scent you were born to love!  Ladies, stop trying to make your pussy smell like a summer's evening and instead let it smell like a woman..warm, musky, soft, sexy! 

When we put all five of our senses into our love making, it becomes a much richer, more pleasurable experience for both partners than if we are neglecting some of them.  Sex is supposed to be fun, feel good, and be a bonding experience..so stop skimping on it!  Really take some time, and enjoy your lover's body the way you did when it was new, think back to the first time you saw them naked, how much you wanted to just kiss and lick and touch every inch of them...DO THAT AGAIN!  You will find that it may reignite the lust you had for each other before things simmered down, or you fell into a routine. 

If you aren't using your 5 senses during sex, then tonight...do it, take a little time and really get to know your lover's body.




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Should you show it?

In the land of technology...you might start to wonder, should you show what you've got??  Look at some of the avatars on twitter, people are showing their tits, pussies, cocks and asses.  You may start to think about showing yours as well...but should you?

There are a few things to consider before you put your dick or tits out there into cyberspace..let's run through them.

1.  Do you ever aspire to have a political career?  If you answer yes, then STOP. They will come back to bite you in the ass, so keep your junk under wraps.
2.  If the pictures were seen by someone you know, other than the intended audience..would you be mortified?  If the answer is yes, then STOP!  Because, in the age of sharing..nothing stays private for long.
3.  Do you have lovely naughty parts?  If the answer is no..then STOP.  If you think people judge you harshly with your clothes on, then just take them off and see what happens, it won't be pretty.
4.  Do you have a job that involves security clearance, or a morality clause?  If the answer is yes, then STOP.  Unless you want you want to start flipping burgers because you lost your job then don't do it.
5.  Do you have a exhibitionism fetish, and none of the listed reasons apply to you, or if they do..you don't care?  If the answer is yes, then I guess you'll take your chances no matter what I say.
6.  Are  you doing it for a boyfriend/girlfriend..and you think it won't EVER get seen by anyone else?  If the answer is yes, then STOP.  There are whole websites set up for revenge on ex's...by posting their nudies.  Do you really want your pic up there??  Plus, some of them even post the phone numbers/addresses of the person in the nudie...now THAT IS SCARY, and aborhant, awful, dreadful behavior by an ex, the thing is..it happens all the time, so don't think just because things are rosy now that they can't turn sour in the future. 
7.  Is it something you'd want your co-workers/parents/friends to see?  If the answer is no..then STOP!  A ex with an issue could easily email your pic to all those people, and do you really want them to see you naked??  Even, if it's not an ex, all it takes is for Joe in the copy room to stumble upon your pic on the internet and share it with everyone because....you know...that's funny (note the sarcasm!).

See, there is a lot to think about before you show it.  Trust is a major issue, and too often it is broken with horrendous results.  So, don't be so quick to put your nakedness out into cyberspace where it will be FOREVER.  Sometimes, staying covered up is more fun, and a lot more wise than showing everything you've got to someone you barely know.
 



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What I find sexy!

I get asked a lot about what I think is sexy/hot.  So, I thought instead of telling you, I'd show you..which I think will be a lot more fun for us both! ;) 

Here is the first video that I came across that I thought was sexy, when you're on top...RIDE IT, don't just bounce, move those hips!
 
Then I found this one..and I have to admit...my panties get wet just watching it!

For all those ladies that wonder just how men want them to lick their balls..well, this should clear it up for you! ;)

Every woman loves a man that will give while he gets!

Ladies,  never be shy about rubbing your clit while he fucks you..as you can see..it's hot!

Ohhh yesss..LICK THAT CLIT!!! Trust me, it's what we are ALWAYS thinking when you are eating our pussies!

Push our legs back, look into our eyes and show us just how much of a MALE you can be!

Have her put it where she wants it!

Sometimes..you just need to bend over and let him take it!

My all time favorite!

If you must roll her over...

If you want to make sure he licks both holes..

Let her control the speed and depth when it comes to anal..

Well, that's about all for now, I hope you enjoyed this little peek into my mind and what I find sexy!  xoxo YC
all video via www.pinktrickle.tumblr.com ...thank you for inspiring me! :)

Is vulnerability sexy?

So, what is it about a vulnerable woman that men find so sexy?  I personally think that it opens the door for a man to be her hero.  To protect her, and be her rock to lean on. 

A woman that is vulnerable is soft, warm and looking for comfort and compassion.  While this can bring out the best in a man, it can also fire up his libido.  The hugging, touching, comforting can easily turn into caresses and kisses.  This is one of those times that you might really feel that you are making love to each other...taking comfort in each other.

If making love becomes the natural next step, then go slowly.  Show her through your actions the full extent of your love for her.  Let your kisses be soft, your touch even softer.  Tell her all those things that maybe you don't say enough.  Let her build the passion...does she needs you to be gentle and slow, stroking in and out of her pussy while you look into her eyes and whisper how beautiful she is to you...or does she need you to grip her hips and drive yourself into her while you kiss her passionately moaning that she is everything you desire...let her lead, you follow, don't try to do what you want, instead be what she wants.

In this day and age, women very rarely show their vulnerable side.  We have to be strong at our jobs, and our lives.  We have historically worked hard for equality and vulnerability is often looked down on in our jobs....example, a woman that cries at work, is often looked at with disdain instead of understanding.  So, when our shell cracks with our partner and we show our soft side, it gives them the chance to jump in and take care of us. 

Just remember that men are focus driven..while women are emotionally driven, so guys don't always try to "fix" her problem, instead just hold her in your arms and listen.  Often women feel that our partner's don't really just listen to us...so take this opportunity to prove her wrong.  Don't try to immediately turn the tide from listening to sex...let her set the path on what she needs.

Being a partner is about being there when you are needed, sometimes giving and not expecting to receive in return.  It's about listening and hearing what is being said and what isn't.  It's about giving love freely to the person that you love.



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