I recently did a post called "Lick it like you mean it!" about eating pussy, so I decided to follow it up with the male version about blow jobs! I don't believe there is a man on this planet that doesn't love having his cock sucked. It is one of the things that if you polled 1000 men...999.5 would say they'd like their partner to give them more blow jobs. There is something about the sight of a woman's lips around a man's cock that just drive them wild. If you don't believe me, watch a porn video, most of the action is oral..lots of close ups of women sucking cock. Yet for some reason, a lot of women don't enjoy sucking cock. So, this is what I think about that...
If you want your woman to suck your cock, then you might need to think about how you approach this activity with her. When she is sucking, do you encourage her actions with your moans and movements? Do you try to make her "deep throat" you by shoving into her mouth until she is gagging? Do you give her warning before you cum so she can choose to spit or swallow? Are you rough or gentle? Often times the reason a woman doesn't enjoy giving a blow job is because of the interaction between her and her partner during it.
Giving a blow job is one of those things that women are never really sure if we are doing it right, or the way our partner likes. It requires some positive feedback from you, to let us know that we are rocking your world, or that you need a little more tongue action or suction. We never really know if you want us to suck your balls or just lick them...do you want us to slide a finger into your ass as we suck your cock or is that strictly a "no-go zone"? We've all had men tell us that such and such woman gave the best bj EVER, or that another woman gave the WORST bj ever...trust us, we do not want to be in that latter group! We really do want to be able to give you as much pleasure with our mouths as you give us with yours!
Again, as always...communication is key!! If you're a man that loves a hand stroke on your lower shaft as your partner sucks and licks the head of your cock then you HAVE TO TELL US! Because, men typically like more stimulation than women, we are often times too gentle in our handling of your member, for fear of hurting you. You might like a firm grip when we give you a hand job or a deep sucking sensation when we are giving you a blow job but we will never know that unless you tell us.
As for spitting or swallowing, that is a personal preference and should be respected. Personally, I love the taste of cum so swallowing to me is a natural conclusion to a blow job and my "reward" for giving you maximum pleasure. However, some women find the salty taste or texture of your cum objectionable and prefer to spit it out. Don't be offended, she might not want to drink it, but at least she is happy to suck you off to that point!! One thing I do think more women need to learn is that once you are cumming, we don't stop sucking....continue a slow gentle suck as your man cums and he will love you even more!
Also, if you're a man that enjoys anal play during your blow job then you should communicate this to your woman. You might even need to explain to her exactly how you like it, often women don't even realize that by massaging a man's prostate gland anally you can give him a much stronger and more forceful orgasm. She may prefer to use a toy such as a small vibrator if she balks at using her finger. You may also enjoy it if she holding a small vibrator at the base of your shaft as she sucks and licks the head of your cock, the vibrations will add the extra stimulation that you may be craving!
Giving or getting a blow job can be a pleasurable experience for both partners but communication is key. Once she knows exactly how you like it, you may find that she wants to do it for you more often...and that she enjoys it! So, now isn't the time to stay quiet...tell us what you want and give us a chance to rock your world!
Via Yany's EroticPics