There is nothing sexier than spreading your legs wide open, taking your lover's cock in your hand and pulling him into your pussy!! Its a very feminine way of offering your pussy to him. I know some women don't like to take an active role during sex. You feel spreading your legs is sufficient to letting him know you want his cock inside you. But, I think most men love knowing that you are so eager for him that you are actually guiding him to your opening.
Its also a great way of making sure he doesn't take you too quick, especially if he's very well endowed! Your hand on his shaft acts as a barrier..allowing him to only partially enter your pussy. As you adjust then you can move your hand on down his cock or remove it and allow him full access. I've actually had to employ this technique for that purpose once, he never realized that I was limiting his thrusts until I had stretched enough to accommodate his considerable size. He just thought it was my way of stroking him as he fucked me.
So, what about if you're on top...do you guide him in as you squat over top of him, or do you just wiggle your pussy around until he's in the right spot? I think you shouldn't be afraid to take him in your hand and put him exactly where you want him to go! Don't let shyness inhibit you when your naked, be wanton, be sexual and be present in the moment with your lover instead of in your head worrying about your cellulite. Grab his cock..and take your pleasure!
All pics Via Yany's EroticPics