Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Dry Humping!

Okay..I think this should actually be called wet humping, because I always get WET when I dry hump!  I think dry humping isn't given the stature it deserves when it comes to sex.  When I was in my teens...my boyfriend at the time introduced me to dry humping.  We'd get in the back seat, I'd take off my jeans and spread my legs...so he could massage my slit, and rub his cock against my panty covered pussy.  It was our version of "sex" with a built in birth control barrier! lol  Honestly, I loved it...it was erotic and sweet and it never failed to make me soak my panties.  He usually came all over my belly and we went back to our respective houses with a big smile on our faces. 

However, as I got older I realized that couples rarely dry hump.  They jerk off those panties and go straight to sex.  C'mon people don't be in such a RUSH!!  When you undress your woman, leave her panties on...and enjoy a little teasing play.  Spread her legs, kiss, lick, finger and hump her thru her panties!  Watch that wet spot get bigger and bigger as you drive her wild!  Pretty soon you'll both want to rip her panties off and fuck like wild animals because you'll be so turned on...but for now, DRY HUMP!!

Dry humping can be incredibly erotic.  Imagine this...you're in a parking lot, getting ready to go into a restaurant to eat and you suddenly decide to hike up your dress and straddle his lap.  Humping your silky clad pussy against his bulge..kissing him.  Giving him just a taste of what he's going to get later.  Or you're at a friends house, sitting on your lover's lap and every time your friend leaves the room..you grind against his cock.  Trust me, he'll make a reason to leave and take you home to fuck faster than you can say FOOTBALL GAME lol 

I think as dating adults we too often rush into the act of sex.  There is nothing wrong with dragging it out a bit...teasing each other..having the build up of excitement.  We go from kissing to fucking with barely a stop in between, I say STOP.  Lets remember the "bases" and try to get to them with your new love...before you make them your lover.  Kiss her deeply, letting your hand touch the side of her breast...her ribcage, before moving up and gently stroking her nipple.  Feeling it growing and getting harder. Don't move beyond that on THIS date.  You have time, take it!!

Because I share my life experiences I will share another one with you.  I had a best friend when I was in my 20's.  We did everything together.  He was a Firefighter and I was just starting in my career.  We were nothing but buddies until one night..laying in front of a the TV watching a movie on a pull out couch he started to kiss me.  I was surprised, but I loved him so dearly I decided to let it happen.  We kissed and his hand moved to my belly..moving my shirt out of the way so he could touch my warm skin.  His hand then slowly moved up and down on my belly...never going higher than the bottom of my bra or lower than the waistband of my jeans.  Honestly, I was ACHING for his hand to explore further.  We kisses and I wiggled under his touch..trying to encourage him...finally his hand found my breast and he slowly started to explore it, but he never stopped his hand sliding up and down my belly...except each time it creeped higher until he was thumbing my nipple.  At this point I pulled down my bra, so my breasts were fully exposed and jutting out proudly for his attention.  He finally broke our kiss to look at my tits and tell me how beautiful he thought I was, and how he'd wanted me for so long. 

I felt safe and loved in his arms, so when he kissed me again and his hand slid down into the waistband of my jeans...he found there a swollen clit and sopping wet slit just waiting for his fingers to explore.  He continued his slow exploration of my breasts and pussy until honestly I couldn't wait any longer, I stood up and took off my clothes AND his and went down on his cock like I'd never sucked one before...I was hungry for it..obsessed to give him as much pleasure as he gave me.  By the time he grabbed me and threw me back on the bed, I spread my legs eager for him to insert that big hard cock into my little dripping hole and he did ...repeatedly!  It was one of the most memorable sexual encounters I had..and I still think about it fondly and sometimes even masturbate to the memory.  You can't underestimate the power of anticipation!!

Take some time with a new lover...or if you have been lovers for years, rediscover what anticipation and teasing can do for your sex life.  I think you'll be delighted with how you can make her pussy quiver and your cock throb with just the addition of some dry humping!  So go hump your partner tonight and as always HAPPY FUCKING!!
 


beneath-our-sheets:

Ash - he LOVES it when I’m his little secretary ;)
All pics via StorageMistress and Yany's Erotic Pics

3 comments:

  1. Wow, I had never really thought about it that way. You have given me something to think about when I'm with my woman. Great post, I love it. Keep up the great work.

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  2. The difference in what dry humping means to one individual versus another makes all the difference. If it means "slow down and enjoy the ride", both partners will come out with a smile. But if it means "get all hot and bothered without finishing with sex", the woman may be fairly satisfied, but the guy is going to end up with a serious case of blue balls. He is NOT going to be happy! So make sure you know whether it's foreplay or just a tease.

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